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How Do You Go About Holding A Same Sex Legal Marriage

By Linda Ruiz


To every person, marriage is a crucial step of life. This is because it affects both private and public life in many ways. Getting married in a same sex legal marriage is difficult due to numerous controversies surrounding same gender unions.

Gay and lesbian marriages face both support and criticism from world over. Those for this believe that everyone has a right to choose who to spend their life with. Those against claim that it goes against the moral and religious concerns and that it brings a different type of family setting. Regardless, the contemporary society is increasingly finding these types of couples acceptable. With this trend, it will not take a long time before their marriages become recognized.

Only some parts of the world recognize unions of similar gender. In other parts it is illegal while others have not yet made their stand. Some of the states in the US have legalized these unions either by popular votes, acts of the legislature or courts. Some states however have completely illegalized them through statutes and constitutions.

There are some states where alternative options are offered such as domestic partnerships and civil unions. They are provided by these states as a way that same gender couples can make their relationships formal. The gay and lesbian community however oppose civil them saying that they do not provide equal benefits like that of a marriage. This according to them belittles gay and lesbian couples and tags them unworthy.

For the states where marriage between couples of similar gender is not prohibited, the process of formalizing the union is quite easy. A couple first applies for a license to carry out a civil marriage. This is obtained from city hall or a court. Where the religion allows then marriage can be formalized in a religious setting. It is important that both of you are eligible according to the law that is be of age and not blood related.

Once this is done, fill and submit a form seeking to apply for your license and also pay processing fee. After three days, the license is ready and you may formalize the marriage by way of a ceremony. The officiating individual then adds time and place of wedding to the license and signs it. It is then sent back to the place of issue.

When you do not live in the same country or state where you were married there are issues bound to arise. For instance, since the government does not recognize you as a couple it becomes difficult to access services meant for couples. Besides, if seeking to terminate your union it would get complicated since it is not recognized in the first place.

Many legal problems face same sex couples. For instance, it would be difficult to adopt children in a state that does not recognize parents of similar gender. It is prudent to contact a lawyer when thinking about getting married to avoid getting on the wrong side of the law.




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