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Misconceptions Of The Rockstar Wife Life

By Marissa Velazquez


Living the rockstar wife life is often misconceived as glamorous and unattainable. Many people are interested to know exactly how this distinct group of wives live their lives and whether or not it compares to things they show in the movies and on television. Wealth, fame, and glamour are often placed on a pedestal, but the reality of those things is that they too are human, face problems daily and just so happen to have a little more than the average person.

To understand the lives of these rocker wives you have to first understand the lives of their husbands. Often times musicians have a very demanding schedule that requires constant travel and a great deal of absence away from their home and the people they love. The biggest temptation for musicians is the countless number of women, also referred to as groupies, that constantly throw themselves at vulnerable musicians.

The media often portrays rockstar wives as tall, blonde, bombshells with surgery enhanced body parts who were once groupies themselves. This portrayal of rocker wives is only a small segment of the population. Often times these are the kind of spouses you find on the various rocker wives reality television shows, but their lives are usually taken out of context for ratings.

One of the largest downfalls to the rockstar wife life is the time and distance spent apart. Part of being a rocker is having to perform, show up at events, walk red carpets, and do various types of interviews which often means long days and even longer nights. Distance along with infidelity are some of the reasons rocker marriages tend to fail.

The amount of time spend apart depends on if there are children in the picture. It is much easier to spend time on the road soaking up the rocker wife life when you don't have to worry about children. Often times wives will travel with their husbands until they get pregnant. The rocker wife life is full of amazing perks like celebrity events, private box seats at concerts and sporting events, exclusive clothing and parties, but it also includes not so fun parts like the inability to make plans in advance.

When it comes to distance and time apart, a road trip away from home can last for a few days up to months. When children are involved picking up and following around a rocker is not only challenging, its almost impossible to keep up for moths on tour. But, the lifestyle can also be accommodating when necessary. For example, some rockers that agree to comeback style tours refuse to travel without their families.

More times than not unfortunately the rockstar wife life is temporary as many of the marriages don't last long for various reasons. But, there are exceptions to the rule like Jon Bon Jovi who has been married to his high school sweetheart over 20 years.

Putting aside the glamour, events, red carpets, and fame that come with the rockstar wife life things are not always as they appear. The high profile pedestal we often place them on is often accompanied by various pitfalls like spousal absence.




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